When it comes to spending, my husband is so understanding. He knows that I know my own limits and stretching a dollar is an art form I've mastered.
But moments of weakness, online shopping, impulse shopping, hauls, killer sales - it happens. And when it does, sometimes your guy questions why you went overboard.
I've been there (not often), and had to get out of it. I resort to quick thinking and Jedi mind tricks to reason my purchases.
Next time your dude exhibits any signs of the following, try one of these nifty tricks:
Level 1: Minor Freak Out: Say it was $20.
* Unless he follows fashion and pricing as closely as you do, you might be able to get away with sayin', "What, it was only $20?!" That is, if you can say it without laughing... and it doesn't have a Chanel label.I've been there (not often), and had to get out of it. I resort to quick thinking and Jedi mind tricks to reason my purchases.
Next time your dude exhibits any signs of the following, try one of these nifty tricks:
Level 1: Minor Freak Out: Say it was $20.
Level 2: Knows You Shop And Doesn't Mind: Bring home his favorite beer, food or even a new present to soften the blow. Think of it as a peace offering - beer for boots.
Level 3: The "Why'd You Have to Buy That?": When in doubt, blame it on stress or the new event you're going to that requires a new ensemble.
* This is a legit reason. Weddings, job interviews, special occasion... they count. He'll understand.
Level 4: Somewhat Miffed: Blame it on your blog. You need clothes for outfit photos. No brainer.
Level 5: Break In Case of Emergency Total Meltdown Status: Say you have your period.
* No way is he going to attempt arguing if he thinks you could PMS on his a$% at any moment. Crisis averted.
